Yes. It determines how much we’re going to have to
work, and how much fixing we’re going to have to do
to provide for you. Now, it may not be a deal breaker.
But it could certainly be a factor that men weigh.
We’ll follow you to a new job if we’re secure in
our manhood and confident we can still provide for
you the way we want and need to. But if we have to
lose everything we’ve worked to build to do it, and
there’s not evidence that we’ll be able to pick up the
pieces while you’re working your new job, then it’s
going to be a tough fight.
We’re only interested in it if it’s going to save our
ass. If we think we’re going to lose you and counseling
will keep us together, then we’ll go. But if it won’t