it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s
love isn’t like a woman’s love.
Don’t get it confused, now—I’m not saying that we’re not
capable of loving. I’m just saying that a man’s love is different—
much more simple, direct, and probably a little harder to come
by. I’ll tell you this much: a man who is in love with you is
probably not going to call you every half hour and give you an
update on how much more he loves you at 5:30 P.M. than he did
at 5:00 P.M.; he’s not going to sit around stroking your hair and
wiping your brow with cold compresses while you sip hot tea
and nurse yourself back to health.
His love is still love, though.
It’s just different from the love that women give and, in a lot
of cases, want.
I argue that if you simply recognize how, exactly, a man
loves, you might find that the man standing in front of you is,
indeed, giving you his all and then some. How do you know
when a man loves you? Simple: he will do each of the following
three things.
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If your man loves you, he’s willing to tell anybody and ev-
erybody, “Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl,”
“my baby’s mama,” or “my lady.” In other words, you will have