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Life Well Lived

promise of companionship. I hear her
voice differently now. I am not tired
or angry; I am soft inside, watching
my kindergartner handle her fragile
grandmother with such deftness.
“Grandma, we are taking you to the
carousel this weekend. I’m going on
the frog, and you can go on the horse
next to me.”
“Oh, that’s wonderful, darling!”
I’m mesmerized by their exchange.
“Tell me, did you go to school to-
day?” She already asked that.
“Yes, Grandma, I went to school,
and we had share day. I brought my
Wonder Woman bracelets.”
“You did? How wonderful!”
“Do you want me to sing you
a song? I know three songs from
Annie.”
And then my daughter sings.
The sharp evening breeze sails
through the window, and the mess

in our apartment settles around me

like an old soft quilt. I listen to my

daughter crooning to her grand-

mother, caring for her with exquisite

patience.

I spend so much time wishing she

had a “real” grandmother, wishing

she knew my “real” mother. In this

moment, I see that she does have a

real grandmother, and she does have

a real relationship with her. It isn’t

the one I had hoped for, but to her,

this is normal—to care for a loved

one is a part of life.

When they hang up, after many

kissing noises, I tell my daughter it

is bath time. She wildly protests, but

I draw the bath anyway. I am still

Mommy, after all, and she is still five.

And yet tonight, she taught me how

to answer the phone like a grown-up.

new york times (november 3, 2017), copyright © 2017

by new york times co., nytimes.com.

Amazing Anagrams

Is it mere coincidence that you can rearrange the letters

in the words on the left to get the words on the right?

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The Morse code = Here come dots

Slot machines = Cash lost in ’em

Snooze alarms = Alas! No more z’s

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