look and evaluate me and my row. But now I was at total inner peace
and I was able to look at people who were looking at me. In fact, I
sought them out. I looked only at people who were looking at me. I felt
so much better! I could be me with strangers! I loved everybody and
really, really appreciated them.
Soon the exercise was completed and the seminar continued; then
we had a short break.The kind woman who had been my last partner
sought me out and we talked about our experience. I told her I was
obviously scared of people but I never knew it. She told me she felt like
we really connected and went on to say that the seminar was helping
her, too, because she realized she had a difficult time accepting love from
others.Well, then it was obvious I had to share with her the healing
technique I used to make me stop crying when we were onstage together.
She started crying.We hugged and then parted to continue our short
break.
Nerissa Oden
TheVideoQueen.com
Earlier this year, I discovered that an employee of mine had been taking
larger sales commissions than she should have.This amounted to
hundreds of dollars in loss to me and my small business. She refused to
take responsibility for these actions. She is a hardworking employee who
would not get another job in our small town making the kind of money
she does with me. I had compassion for her, but I was also very angry
and hurt. In the days that followed, I couldn’t speak to her except about
specific work-related subjects, and I could barely look at her. I didn’t
know what to do. I turned to Joe, and what happened next was truly
amazing. He thanked me for contacting him.Then he gave me specific
steps to take to clear the energy. First, I needed to understand that I
attracted the situation—not easy to do, but essential to the process.Then
I must forgive myself, the employee, and the energy surrounding the
problem. Next I must set new intentions for how I want the situation to
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