lied, and it simply boils down to the fact that he
couldn’t get what he wanted by telling you the
truth. It’s simple. Stop overthinking it.
Another reason for a man to lie is if he thinks you
can’t handle the truth. I understand it’s unfair for a
man to jump to that conclusion. At the very least he
should give you the opportunity to decide for
yourself and determine what you want to do with
the truth. However, as much as I encourage people
to be honest and transparent, I’ve talked to a lot of
different men and one of the biggest complaints they
have is that their woman can’t handle the truth.
Let’s use how you look to him as an example. You’re
in a relationship. You all are getting ready for an event
and you ask him, how something looks on you, if it
looks good, or if what you have on is unflattering?
He may genuinely feel like what you chose to
wear is unflattering and does not like it. If he
thought he could be honest and say how he really
felt without it turning into an issue, he would gladly
tell you the truth. However, he’s probably already
experienced the effects of his truth not aligning with
what you want to hear, or he’s learned from other
men, that lying to you about those types of
112 HE’S LYING SIS