giving you what you need, but he’s still willing to
take what you’re willing to give him. If this is the
case, it’s a fake relationship.
Real relationships aren’t one-sided. So, if he’s
taking, taking, taking, it’s fake. Even if in the
beginning, he was doing all this nice stuff, it’s very
difficult for most men, not all, there’s always
exceptions to the rule, but for most men to maintain
that behavior consistently if they’re not serious
about you. At some point, you’re going to see the
situationship become lopsided. It’s going to be more
about what you give him rather than what he’s
willing to give you.
Ask yourself a question. “Does he take my
feelings seriously?” If a man is always dismissing your
feelings, making excuses, and deflecting, it’s a fake
relationship. Him not taking your feelings seriously,
means he’s not serious enough about you.
I’ve seen tons of situations where any time the
woman would bring her concerns to the guy, he
would just turn the tables on her. “Oh, you’re
tripping. You’re always complaining. Why aren’t you
ever happy?”
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