probably because there wasn’t a strong connection
present in the first place.
Bottom line. When he’s acting like your
boyfriend, but he’s telling you he doesn’t want a
girlfriend, stop acting like his girlfriend.
Stop engaging and giving him the benefits of
having a girlfriend. Stop rewarding him if he’s
unwilling to give you the security you need. To be
honest with you, the real security is marriage, not
merely a relationship.
However, I understand that marriage is not
everyone’s top priority. Everyone’s not trying to get
married tomorrow. We live in a society that engages
in boyfriend and girlfriend relationships as adults.
Okay, fine. At the very least, he should be able to
give you a committed relationship.
Let’s be real. If he can’t even attempt to give you
that, why are you continuously giving him what he
desires? Stop making it so easy for him. Stop being
so convenient for him. Stop allowing him to make
withdrawals without demanding that he makes
deposits back into you. Mature relationships are all
about reciprocity. He will do what you allow him to
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