and want to give up hope regarding your ability to
experience a great relationship in this lifetime.
Loss of hope, turns into you settling or
entertaining situations you don’t belong in. Hence
my use of “situationships” vs. “relationships” to
describe your possible current scenario. Being
discouraged can cause you to become blinded to the
red flags you may recognize in a potential mate. You
might be afraid to address the red flags because you
feel like, “Well, can I find anything better? Why leave
this guy, who’s a jerk, for an unknown jerk? He may
be my best option. Let me figure out how to deal
with him and make it work.”
Even worse, you might be thinking, “Better to
have a piece of a man than no man at all,” depending
on your situation. These types of thought processes
and justifications regarding dating and relationships
are wrong. However, I understand that this type of
thinking is exactly what’s going on in the minds of
many women nowadays. Not understanding how to
navigate through the treacherous waters of the
dating landscape is a struggle for most women. This
is the main reason why I wrote this book.
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