And guess what happens? He feels it. He no ces those
insecuri es, and it lowers your value in his eyes and makes you
seem needy, or clingy, or even desperate and then before you
know it, he’s running for the hills.
That’s why you must stop looking for a rela onship to reassure
you. Remember, feeling secure comes from inside of you, and if
you don’t feel worthy... if you don’t know your value, it won’t
ma er how smart, sexy, worthy or a rac ve your partner tells you
that you are. It won’t s ck and you’ll need more and more
reassurance to temporarily fill you up again.
That’s why you must strive to feel okay within yourself. You need
to love yourself and accept who you are. Then you can be fully
accep ng of the love and affec on your partner directs toward
you. Again, it comes from within, not from looking to your partner
at every turn for reassurance to prove you’re okay.
But as we discussed before, prac cing self-love in the context of a
new rela onship is o en easier said than done. When we want
another person, we o en do things that we think will win their
affec on. And in doing so, we o en engage in behaviors that are
anything but self-loving.
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