#4 Priori ze Your Life and Start Saying No
In other words, don’t always be available for him by always saying
yes when he calls and asks you to go out... especially if he’s calling
with short no ce. Saying no to his requests for plans sends him
the message that you have other engagements or commitments
that are taking priority... at least at this me when he’s asking. It
also forces him to recognize your independence and that you’re
not just si ng by the phone wai ng for his calls. Remember, one
of the most important things that men find a rac ve in women is
independence. He’s got to know how full and complete your life
is. And, if he becomes part of it, it's because you WANT him to be
part of it, not because you NEED him to part of it.
So make sure you are keeping up with the life you had prior to
mee ng him. Be yourself and make yourself a priority. Make and
keep plans with your girlfriends and keep your schedule busy. This
goes a long way towards helping him to see you as a high value
woman with an exci ng life. And when you do that he’s going to
want to be a part of that. And when he isn't, he’s going to feel it.
So when he calls last minute to make plans... “Oops.. sorry, I have
plans...” this will make him priori ze and plan his me with you. He
will also begin to recognize that he does NOT get the privilege of
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