When a man has everything he wants, what’s his incen ve to try
harder? What’s the incen ve to change? I mean if you are hanging
out together and ac ng like boyfriend and girlfriend and he’s
happy, why would he change anything? He’s ge ng all of his
needs met, right?
He's ge ng his needs for companionship, a en on, friendship,
in macy, sex. He’s not going to change just to be nice, and if that’s
not bad enough, when he says he doesn’t want a rela onship right
now, many women try harder to be more though ul, more loving.
They try to be the perfect girlfriend hoping that he'll fall deeply in
love and then he'll certainly want a commi ed rela onship.
Only it doesn’t work like that. Remember that he’s happy... he’s
sa sfied just the way things are. Why change when he doesn’t
have to. You’re going to have to set some boundaries for yourself,
for him, and for the rela onship. That means that you are going to
have to start saying no to him. You’re going to have to disappoint
him. You’re going to have to set expecta ons of him and make him
meet them.
You can’t be his last minute booty call. You can’t con nue to just
meet him for a Ne lix and chill session. You’re going to have to let
him know your expecta ons and let him know that if he wants to
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