168 CuretheDiseaseofUnhappiness
WhenIwasayoungteenagerIwishedthatIwouldbecomea
neurosurgeon. Ineverbackedthatwishupbyapplyingformedical
schoolorattemptinginanywaytoreceivethetrainingthatwouldbe
necessarytoallowmetoattainthefulfillmentofmy wish.
Wishesareclearlystrongdesiresthatpeopledonotbackupwith
theenergynecessarytobringthemintoreality.Theymayseemvery
importanttous,butifweconsiderthefactthatwearenotwillingto
worktofulfillthem,theirtrueimportancetousbeginstobeseeninits
properperspective.
Whatisthetruedefinitionofawant?Whatdoesitmeantowant
acertainthingoracertaincircumstanceinourlife?Isawantthesame
asawish?Takeamomentnowtoconsiderthesequestionsinyour
ownmindbeforecontinuingwiththischapter.
Awidely-acceptedpracticalandpsychologicaldefinitionofa
wantis astrongdesirebackedbywhateverenergyisnecessaryto
attainthatdesire.Thisdefinitionismademoreclearforyouinthe
followingexample.IdecidedwhenIwasinhighschoolthatIwanted
togotocollege.Ibackedupthiswantbytakingacollegepreparatory
courseduringmyhighschoolyearsandthenmakingformalapplica-
tiontoauniversity.SinceIalsowantedtograduatefromcollege,I
tookthenecessaryrequiredcoursesattheuniversityandtheneces-
sarynumberofelectivesinordertocompletetherequirementsfor
graduation. Unlikemy desireto play classical musicon apiano
which,forme,wasonlyawish,mydesiretoattendandgraduate
fromcollegewasastrongwantbackedbyenergyintheformofaction
thatwasdesignedtobringwhatIwantedintoreality.
Readyourwishesandwantsoveragainandthinkaboutthemfor
afewmoments.Areyourthreelistingsofwantstrulydesireswhich
youarewillingtobackwithenergyandaction?Ifyouranswerisno
then youcannot stopdeluding yourselfanylonger,andadmitto
yourselfthatyoumaywishforthesethingsbuttrulydonotwantthem
inyourlife.Whatindividualwouldbesofoolishastobeunhappyat
the absenceofsomethingorsome circumstanceinhis life which
hereally didn'twantthere anyway? Haveyou spent timebeing
unhappybecauseyoudidnothaveathingorcircumstancewhichyou
trulydidn'twantinthefirstplace?
Youmaynowlookatyourresponsestosectionthree.Whatisa
need?Isaneedsomethingyouwantverystronglyandarewillingto
putalltheactionnecessarybehinditinordertoachieveitsreality?Is