how we  psychologically survive and thrive. It’s    how we  find    hope.   And even
if  you have    a   vision  for a   better  future, it’s    too hard    to  go  it  alone.  To  realize
any  dream,  we  need    support     networks,   for     both    emotional   and     logistical
reasons.    It  takes   an  army.   Literally.
It’s    our value   hierarchies—as  expressed   through the stories of  religion,
and shared  among   thousands   or  millions—that   attract,    organize,   and propel
human    systems     forward     in  a   sort    of  Darwinian   competition.    Religions
compete in  the world   for resources,  and the religions   that    tend    to  win out are
those    whose   value   hierarchies     make    the     most    efficient   use     of  labor   and
capital.     And     as  it  wins    out,    more    and     more    people  adopt   the     winning
religion’s  value   hierarchy,  as  it  has demonstrated    the most    value   to  individuals
in  the population. These   victorious  religions   then    stabilize   and become  the
foundation  for culture.^46
But  here’s  the     problem:    Every   time    a   religion    succeeds,   every  time     it
spreads its  message    far  and     wide   and  comes  to   dominate    a  huge     swath   of
human   emotion and endeavor,   its values  change. The religion’s  God Value   no
longer  comprises   the principles  that    inspired    the religion    in  the first   place.  Its
God Value   slowly  shifts  and becomes the preservation    of  the religion    itself:
not to  lose    what    it  has gained.
And this    is  where   the corruption  begins. When    the original    values  that
defined the religion,   the movement,   the revolution, get tossed  aside   for the
sake     of  maintaining     the     status  quo,    this    is  narcissism  at  an  organizational
level.  This    is  how you go  from    Jesus   to  the Crusades,   from    Marxism to  the
gulags,  from    a   wedding     chapel  to  divorce     court.  This    corruption  of  the
religion’s  original    values  rots    away    at  the religion’s  following,  thus    leading to
the  rising  up  of  newer,  reactionary     religions   that    eventually  conquer     the
original    one.    Then    the whole   process begins  again.
In  this    sense,  success is  in  many    ways    far more    precarious  than    failure.
First,   because     the     more    you     gain    the     more    you     have    to  lose,   and     second,
because the more    you have    to  lose,   the harder  it  is  to  maintain    hope.   But more
important,  because by  experiencing    our hopes,  we  lose    them.   We  see that    our
beautiful   visions for a   perfect future  are not so  perfect,    that    our dreams  and
aspirations  are     themselves  riddled     with    unexpected  flaws   and     unforeseen
sacrifices.
Because the only    thing   that    can ever    truly   destroy a   dream   is  to  have    it
come    true.