4 . FOCUS ON THE PROCESS, NOT THE OUTCOME
5 . USE THE RIGHT KIND OF PRAISE
6 . REALIZE THAT YOUR CHILDREN IMITATE YOU
27 . CHAPTER 14
28 . Create a Conscious Space in Your Child’s Life
1 . ALLOW ROOM FOR STILLNESS IN YOUR CHILD’S
SCHEDULE
2 . CREATE A MEANINGFUL NARRATIVE FOR YOUR CHILD
3 . WHY EXPRESSING GRATITUDE TO YOUR CHILD IS A
POWERFUL PARENTING TOOL
29 . CHAPTER 15
30 . Connect to Your Child with Engaged Presence
1 . HOW WE UNDERMINE OUR ATTEMPTS TO CONNECT
WITH OUR CHILDREN
2 . DO YOU VALIDATE YOUR CHILDREN’S BEHAVIOR, OR
THEIR BEING?
3 . JUST BE THERE
31 . CHAPTER 16
32 . How to Handle Your Child’s Mistakes
1 . DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHY THEY DID WHAT THEY
DID?
2 . HOW YOU CAN TRANSFORM MISTAKES INTO
SPIRITUAL GOLD
3 . CELEBRATE YOUR CHILD’S MISTAKES
33 . CHAPTER 17
34 . The Two Wings of the Eagle
1 . A CHILD CAN’T SOAR WITHOUT CONTAINMENT
2 . THE SPIRITUAL APPROACH TO DISCIPLINE
3 . DON’T AVOID CONFLICT—VALUE IT
4 . HOW TO DISCIPLINE IN A MANNER THAT WORKS
5 . THE RULE ABOUT RULES
6 . WHY TEACHING IS MORE EFFECTIVE THAN
PUNISHMENT
7 . ACTING OUT REFLECTS UNMET EMOTIONAL NEEDS