When    we  consider    the range   of  options open    to  our kids    when    they’re
unhappy with    us  —   everything  from    ignoring    us  to  telling us  where   to  go
—   the rolling eyes    or  the steely  gaze    aren’t  so  bad.    It  gives   our kids    the
chance  to  save    face    and retain  some    control.    We  all need    that    opportunity
when    placed  in  a   situation   we’re   not pleased with.
                    
                      lu
                      (lu)
                      
                    
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