neutralizing,    13
at  orders,  71
rebellion   and,     76
at  self,    85
showing,     92
spanking    and,     222
apologies,   68 ,    155
arguments
praise  and,    45–46
neutralizing,    13 ,    60 ,    115
assertiveness,   189
Attention   Deficit Hyperactivity   Disorder    (ADHD),  238
attention-deficit   disorder,    191
attitude,    14 ,    27 ,   32–33
about   chores,  136
negative,   200–202
about   schoolwork,  191
authoritarianism,    61
authority,   37 ,    87 .   See also    control
bail-outs.  See rescue
bedtime,     83 ,    97 ,   125–27,  168 .  See also    sleep
begging,     17
behavior.   See also    tantrums
bad,     19 ,    65 ,    68 ,    126 ,   154
calm,    56
in  cars,   132–35
consequences    of, 67–68,   152 ,   172
controlling,     63
effect  on  others,  27 ,    123 ,   124 ,   165 ,   204
imitation   of,  41 .   See also    modeling
intervention    regarding,  55–56
irresponsible,   52
limits  on, 66–68.  See also    limits
                    
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