professional, 191 , 213 , 242
counselors, 27 , 129
courage, 44
creativity, 105 , 141–43
credentials, 24–25
crises, 144–46
criticism, 37 , 200–201
of ex-spouse, 159–60
from grandparents, 187–88
curiosity, 141 , 143 , 197 , 249
danger, 54 , 59 , 62
avoiding, 135
from bullying, 131
intervening in, 170–71, 253
decision making, 14 , 21 , 29 , 57–59. See also choices; learning; learning
opportunities
age-appropriate, 32–33, 83
burden of, 69 , 129
independent, 248
by parents, 22–30, 93 , 96
participation in, 195–96
practice with, 22–23, 27 , 43 , 44 , 195
responsibility and, 52 , 80
right to, 76
unwise, 95
defensiveness, 220 , 232
defiance, 85 , 87 , 252
demands
giving in to, 66
by parent. See orders
demeanor, 112
denial, 251