telling child about, 155–56
dressing. See clothes
drill sergeant parents, 25–26, 27 , 80 , 128 , 257
drinking. See alcohol use
drugs, 21 , 22–23, 29 , 30 , 207 , 245
eating, 72 , 161–63. See also meals
control of, 90–91, 162
in restaurants, 134–35
Eden, Garden of, 29
effort, 24 , 166 , 245
embarrassment, 59 , 63 , 151
emergencies. See crises
emotions, 144
avoiding, 128
in behavior modification, 92 , 183
about divorce, 155–56
as feedback, 255
identifying, 171
need for, 91
negative, 56 , 168
parental, 61 , 183 , 219
in reactions to situations, 63 , 148 . See also reactions; responses
showing, 219
understanding children’s, 61
empathy, 13 , 59–60, 92 , 106–8
bad choices and, 77 , 99
insincere, 112–13
in Love and Logic system, 111
need for, 123
encouragement, 37 , 41 , 47 , 231
of creativity, 141–43
praise distinguished, 44–46