energy, emotional, 36
enforceable statements, 13 , 57–59, 65 , 71
examples of, 258–59
thinking words and, 69 , 75
entertainment, 166 , 193
entitlement, 114 , 164–67, 179–80
environment
control/power over, 29
exploring, 141–42
modifying, 130
equality, 180
evaluation. See self-evaluation
Eve, 29
examples, 13 , 111 , 214 . See also modeling
excuses, 68 , 102 , 154 , 186 , 199
expectations, 160 , 165 , 166 , 185
clarifying with grandparents, 189
experience, 111
with decision making, 195
failure
admission of, 213
choosing, 29
failure, allowing, 28–30, 33 , 187
in nonthreatening situations, 37
protectiveness and, 32
unconditional love in, 36 , 48
fairness, 76 , 94 , 228 , 246
faith, 139 , 146
family, 13
fears, 168–69, 217
fighting, 63 , 170–72
in cars, 132–35