The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically I

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though it would be more efficient to have all the stu-
dents in a classroom have the exact same learning
styles and capabilities, it never works out that way. So
it’s always necessary to adapt lessons and assignments
to individual learners. The learning disability of in-
flexibility and poor tolerance for frustration is as
good a reason to do Plan B as any other type of learn-
ing disability.


  • Time: Teachers often complain that they don’t have
    time to do Plan B. Of course, doing the right thing and
    fixing the problem always takes less time than doing
    the wrong thing and not fixing the problem. But it’s ab-
    solutely true that the school schedule isn’t designed to
    give school personnel the time they need to discuss a
    student’s pathways, develop action plans for teaching
    the thinking skills a child lacks and using Plan B, and
    meeting periodically to assess the student’s progress
    and reconfigure the action plan. On the other hand,
    what’s done with the meeting time that does exist is
    often—don’t take this the wrong way, please—a waste
    of time. Too much time is spent telling stories (about
    the student’s behavior) rather than making sense out of
    the stories with the pathways. Too much time is spent
    agonizing and obsessing over categorization (“Does he
    need a 504 Plan or an IEP?”) rather than developing ac-
    tion plans to get the job done.

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