The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically I

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The Plan B Classroom 251


  • Expertise: Many educators apply to explosive students
    the same principles of discipline that were effective
    with their own children, generally with poor results.
    Other educators believe that the expertise necessary
    for understanding and helping an explosive child is
    well beyond their grasp. Not true. You need expertise
    in three domains: five pathways, three Plans, and three
    steps for doing Plan B. So chin up: If you’ve read the
    ten chapters that preceded this one, you’re well on
    your way in the expertise department. Now you just
    need experience. No time like the present.

  • APlanBRoadMap: We’re going to have to replace
    the school discipline code with something that will
    actually work: a road map for implementing Plan B.
    It’s a pretty easy road map to follow. The first goal is
    to achieve a consensus on a given student’s pathways
    and triggers (see Chapter 3). This usually requires a
    meeting or two involving all of the adults who inter-
    act with the child at school. It often makes sense to
    have parents and relevant mental health professionals
    present as well. Intervening before you know what
    pathways and triggers are coming into play is akin to
    a hunter firing a shotgun randomly into the air and
    hoping to hit something good. The next goal is to pri-
    oritize which problems are to be proactively solved
    (triggers) and which skills are to be proactively taught

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