On Becoming Baby Wise: Giving Your Infant the Gift of Nighttime Sleep

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fourth week and generally ends by three months. While there are no
significant medical concerns associated with “true” colic, the main
problem is the stress and anxiety it creates within the home. It is
emotionally difficult for parents to cope with the constant crying of an
inconsolable baby knowing nothing can satisfy her. This is where close
friends and extended family may be able to help, even if it is to give the
parents a short break now and then.


What Can a Mother Do?


It would be nice if there was a medical cure for colic or some homespun
remedy that could bring babies relief from their physical distress.
However, this is not the case. The encouraging news is that colic, while
distressing, is not hopeless, and babies do outgrow it. If your baby is
living with colic, here is a list of suggestions to consider.



  1. Always consult your pediatrician to rule out any medical reasons for
    your baby’s excessive crying or spitting up. Ask your practitioner what
    might be helpful for your infant.

  2. Stay mindful of the fact that all babies are different and respond to
    different measures. Find out what works for your baby and stay with it.
    For one mom it is swaddling her baby; for another it is giving her baby a
    warm bath. Still another mom might try bring relief by placing her infant
    in a swing or near a vibrating dryer, (not on the dryer) If the baby is
    bottle-fed, consider changing formula. Your pediatrician can advise you
    on this.

  3. Breastfeeding moms may find certain foods in their own diet to be a
    source of their baby’s discomfort. You can start by eliminating the
    “gassy” vegetables (e.g., broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage, onions, and
    garlic) or any spicy foods, as well as dairy products, caffeine, and
    alcohol. If food sensitivity is causing the discomfort, there will be a
    noticeable decrease in your baby’s colic-like symptoms within a couple

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