Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It

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CHAPTER 3: DON’T FEEL THEIR PAIN, LABEL IT



  1. Greg J. Stephens, Lauren J. Silbert, and Uri Hasson,
    “Speaker–Listener Neural Coupling Underlies Successful
    Communication,” Proceedings of the National Academy
    of Sciences of the USA 107, no. 32 (August 10, 2010):
    14425–30.

  2. Matthew D. Lieberman et al., “Putting Feelings into
    Words: Affect Labeling Disrupts Amygdala Activity in
    Response to Affective Stimuli,” Psychological Science
    18, no. 5 (May 2007): 421–28.


CHAPTER 4:  BEWARE  “YES”—MASTER    “NO”


  1. Jim Camp, Start with NO: The Negotiating Tools That
    the Pros Don‘t Want You to Know (New York: Crown
    Business, 2002).


CHAPTER 6:  BEND    THEIR   REALITY


  1. Herb Cohen, You Can Negotiate Anything (Secaucus,
    NJ: Lyle Stuart, 1980).

  2. Antonio R. Damasio, Descartes’ Error: Emotion,
    Reason, and the Human Brain (New York: Quill, 2000).

  3. Jeffrey J. Fox, How to Become a Rainmaker: The People
    Who Get and Keep Customers (New York: Hyperion,
    2000).

  4. Daniel Ames and Malia Mason, “Tandem Anchoring:
    Informational and Politeness Effects of Range Offers in
    Social Exchange,” Journal of Personality and Social
    Psychology 108, no. 2 (February 2015): 254–74.

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