Perlow, Leslie, 172
Perspective taking, 86–93
and advice seeking, 151–52
and givers, 88–91, 92–93
meaning of, 87–88
and older siblings, 90–91n
and takers, 88, 91–92
Persuasion
in negotiation. See Negotiation
and powerless speech, 142–48
Phelps, Nancy, 138
Photographs, takers, recognizing in, 35–37
Pink, Daniel, 130, 135
Pisano, Gary, 70
Plesse, Sherryann, 22, 255
Polio vaccine, as collaborative effort, 79–81
Politics
as getting business, 10
givers and success in, 10–16
Porter, Terry, 120, 124
Potential in others, recognizing. See Talent development
Powerful communication
limitations of, 132, 148
of takers, 130, 133, 147
Powerless communication, 130–54
advertising theme example, 142–46
advice seeking in, 150–53
downsides to, 146–47
elements of, 130–31
and group performance, 147–48
lawyer and success, 126–29, 134–35, 141–42, 146
listening in, 136–37, 139–40
and negotiating, 148–54
and persuasion, 142–48
practicing, 265
pratfall effect, 134–35, 134n
and presenting, 131–35
questioning in, 139–42
and selling, 136–42
tentative markers in, 144–46
vulnerability, expressing in, 133–35, 151
Pratfall effect, 134–35, 134n
Prestige, influence through, 130
Productivity problem, and givers, 58–59, 155, 172–73, 186–87, 210–11
Pronoia
defined, 48
and givers, 48–50
Psychological safety
created by givers, 85–86
negative aspects of, 85n
Punishment
gossip as, 34
of takers by matchers, 33–34
Pushover effect
assertiveness problems, 201–9
empathy trap, 195–201
otherish approach to, 205–9, 211–15
trusting others, 189–94
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