greatest gift you can give to another
human being.
Once we reconnected, I was
overcome by this drive to make up
for all the years we’d missed. I
decided the best way to do it was to
interview him. I realized very
quickly that that was a mistake.
Interviews will give you facts and
information, but facts and
information weren’t really what I
was after. What I wanted was a
relationship, and an interview is not
a relationship. Relationships are
built in the silences. You spend
time with people, you observe them
and interact with them, and you