Boundaries

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There are many more ways that dating can become misery because
of freedom and responsibility problems. We will go over many of
them in the book. And, as you will see, understanding and applying
boundaries in the right ways can make a world of difference in how
you approach the dating arena.
In the next chapter, we will look at the first and foremost boundary
line of any relationship: truth.

Take-Away Tips

• Dating involves risks, and boundaries help you navigate those
  risks.


• Boundaries are your “property lines” which define and protect
  you.


• Learn to value what your boundaries protect, such as your
  emotions, values, behaviors, and attitudes.


• Boundaries help you be yourself, instead of losing yourself in
  someone else.


• You want the person you date to take responsibility for his life,
  as you do.


• Good boundaries will help you choose better quality people
  because they help you become a better person.

Why Boundaries in Dating?