drink beer for breakfast.
Let’s say your story is that you can’t
make money. By staying broke, you get
to be right. You get to be a victim, which
makes you dependent on other people
and gets you attention. Other people will
offer to pay. You don’t have to take
responsibility. You get to give up before
you start and avoid possible failure. If
things in your life fall far below the
mediocre scale, you get to blame other
people and circumstances instead of
taking risks to change it because you
can’t afford to take risks.
Let’s say your story is that you stink
at relationships. You get your freedom.
You don’t have to commit and can keep