Another important thing to remember
when yanking the weeds out of your
garden is not to get involved in their
drama. Cut the cord as quickly and
simply as possible, with little to no
discussion. If they’re so oblivious to
your feelings that you need to toss them
out of your life, chances are very good
they won’t see this coming, so the
discussion on why you need to end it
could go on for the rest of your lives if
you let it. Suddenly get really busy, fade
them out, wean them off you with zero
explanation. The louder they scream, the
busier you suddenly get.
If having a conversation is
unavoidable, remember: You’ve already