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June    23rd

THE LONG    WAY AROUND

“You    could   enjoy   this    very    moment  all the things  you are praying to  reach   by  taking  the long    way

around—if   you’d   stop    depriving   yourself    of  them.”

—MARCUS AURELIUS,   MEDITATIONS,    12.1

sk most people what they’re working toward and you’ll get an answer like: “I’m trying to become a
[insert profession].” Or they’ll tell you they’re trying to get appointed to some impressive committee
or position, become a millionaire, get discovered, become famous, whatever. Now you ask a couple more
questions, such as “Why are you doing that?” or “What are you hoping it will be like when you get it?”
and you find at the very core of it, people want freedom, they want happiness, and they want the respect of
their peers.
A Stoic looks at all this and shakes his head at the immense effort and expense we put into chasing
things that are simple and straightforward to acquire. It’s as if we prefer to spend years building a
complicated Rube Goldberg machine instead of just reaching out and picking up what we want. It’s like
looking all over for your sunglasses and then realizing they were on your head the whole time.
Freedom? That’s easy. It’s in your choices.
Happiness? That’s easy. It’s in your choices.
Respect of your peers? That too is in the choices you make.
And all of that is right in front of you. No need to take the long way to get there.