The Daily Stoic

(Dana P.) #1

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July    30th
STOIC JOY

“Trust  me, real    joy is  a   serious thing.  Do  you think   someone can,    in  the charming    expression,
blithely dismiss death with an easy disposition? Or swing open the door to poverty, keep
pleasures in check, or meditate on the endurance of suffering? The one who is comfortable with
turning these thoughts over is truly full of joy, but hardly cheerful. It’s exactly such a joy that I
would wish for you to possess, for it will never run dry once you’ve laid claim to its source.”
—SENECA, MORAL LETTERS, 23.4

e throw around the word “joy” casually. “I’m overjoyed at the news.” “She’s a joy to be around.”
“It’s a joyous occasion.” But none of those examples really touches on true joy. They are closer to
“cheer” than anything else. Cheerfulness is surface level.
Joy, to Seneca, is a deep state of being. It is what we feel inside us and has little to do with smiles or
laughing. So when people say that the Stoics are dour or depressive, they’re really missing the point. Who
cares if someone is bubbly when times are good? What kind of accomplishment is that?
But can you be fully content with your life, can you bravely face what life has in store from one day to
the next, can you bounce back from every kind of adversity without losing a step, can you be a source of
strength and inspiration to others around you? That’s Stoic joy—the joy that comes from purpose,
excellence, and duty. It’s a serious thing—far more serious than a smile or a chipper voice.

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