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November    19th
MAXIMS  FROM    THREE   WISE    MEN“For    any challenge   we  should  hold    three   thoughts    at  our command:
‘Lead   on  God and Destiny,
To  that    Goal    fixed   for me  long    ago.
I   will    follow  and not stumble;    even    if  my  will
is  weak    I   will    soldier on.’”
—CLEANTHES“Whoever    embraces    necessity   count   as  wise,
skilled in  divine  matters.”
—EURIPIDES“If it  pleases the gods,   so  be  it. They    may well    kill    me, but they    can’t   hurt    me.”
—PLATO’S    CRITO   AND APOLOGY—EPICTETUS, ENCHIRIDION,     53hese    three   quotes  compiled    by  Epictetus   show    us—in   wisdom  across  history—the themes  of
tolerance,  flexibility,    and,    ultimately, acceptance. Cleanthes   and Euripides   evoke   destiny and fate    as
concepts    that    help    ease    acceptance. When    one has a   belief  in  a   greater or  higher  power   (be it  God or
gods),  then    there   is  no  such    thing   as  an  event   going   contrary    to  plan.
Even    if  you don’t   believe in  a   deity,  you can take    some    comfort in  the various laws    of  the universe    or
even    the circle  of  life.   What    happens to  us  as  individuals can seem    random  or  upsetting   or  cruel   or
inexplicable,   when    in  fact    these   events  make    perfect sense   when    our perspective is  zoomed  out,    even    just
slightly.
Let’s   practice    this    perspective today.  Pretend that    each    event—whether   desired or  unexpected—was
willed  to  happen, willed  specifically    for you.    You wouldn’t    fight   that,   would   you?