Day 1: Listen
Before you even think about your responses to other people, you need to
sharpen your listening skills. Have you ever had a conversaton with
someone whose body is there, but their mind is not? Frustratng, isn’t it?
- Poor communicators think that “listening” is merely the act of waitng for
their turn to speak all while mentally composing their response. This is a
grave mistake. Listening is so much more – it’s a way of providing someone
else the chance to share their thoughts and ideas, to build emotonal
intmacy, and to show empathy.
- Today, you’re going to learn the basics of great listening, and then undertake
an exercise that will allow you to put these tps into practce. Listening isn’t
simply about giving another person the chance to vocalize what’s on their
mind, although this is valuable in its own right. Listening is also the frst step
towards personal change.