The Coaching Habit

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to say to make the Yes happen. It’s all too easy to shove another
Yes into the bag of our overcommitted lives, hoping that in a
Harry Potter magical sort of way it will somehow all be
accommodated. This second type of No puts the spotlight on how
to create the space and focus, energy and resources that you’ll
need to truly do that Yes.
You can use the 3P model you read about in the Kickstart
Question chapter to make sure you cover all the bases.


Projects


What projects do you need to abandon or postpone?
What meetings will you no longer attend?
What resources do you need to divert to the Yes?


People


What expectations do you need to manage?
From what Drama Triangle dynamics will you extract yourself?
What relationships will you let wither?


Patterns


What habits do you need to break?
What old stories or dated ambitions do you need to update?
What beliefs about yourself do you need to let go of?

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