The Coaching Habit

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Focus Question: “What’s the real challenge here for you?”


WITHOUT A GOOD QUESTION, A GOOD


ANSWER HAS NO PLACE TO GO.


Clayton Christensen


Symptoms of Proliferation of Challenges


Have you ever made popcorn? One “pop.” Then another. Then
another. And then the popping goes crazy. Problems proliferate in
the same way.


Solution to Proliferation of Challenges


Resist the temptation to do the work and to pick one of the many
challenges as the starting point (even though, no doubt, you’ll
have an opinion on which one it should be). Instead, ask something
like this:
“If you had to pick one of these to focus on, which one here
would be the real challenge for you?”


Coaching the Ghost


“What,” you say with genuine curiosity, “is on your mind?”
“John.”
“John?”

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