Awomanneedstoprioritize"lovingattitudesandfeelings."whichwillensurethatherpartner'sloveneeds
arefulfilled.Asawomanisabletoexpresslovingattitudesandfeelingstowardaman,hefeelsmotivated
togivemore.Thisthenassistsherinopeningherheartevenmore.Awoman'sheartopensmoreassheis
abletogetthesupportsheneeds.
Women aresometimesunawareof whena manreally needslove. At suchtimesawoman can score
twentytothirtypoints.Thesearesomeexamples:
HOWWOMENCANSCOREBIGWITHMEN
Whathappens Pointshegivesher
I.Hemakesamistakeandshedoesn'tsay"Itoldyouso"orofferadvice. 10 _ 20
2 .Hedisappointsherandshedoesn'tpunishhirn. 10 _ 20
3 .Hegetslostwhiledrivingandshedoesn'tmakeabigdealoutofit. 10 _ 20
4 .Hegetslostandsheseesthegoodinthesituationandsays"Wewouldneverhaveseenthisbeautiful
sunsetifwehadtakenthemostdirectroute." 20 _ 30
5 .HeforgetstopickupsomethingandshesaysIt'sOK.Wouldyoudoitnexttimeyouareout?" 10 _ 20
- Heforgetstopick upsomethingagainand shesayswith trustingpatienceandpersistenceIt'sOK.
Wouldyoustillgetit?" 20 _ 30
7 .Whenshehashurthimandsheunderstandshishurt,sheapologizesandgiveshimtheloveheneeds.
10 _ 40
8 .Sheasksforhissupportandhesaysnoandsheisnothurtbyhisrejectionbuttruststhathewouldif
hecould.Shedoesnotrejecthimordisapproveofhim. 10 _ 20
9 .Anothertimesheasksforhissupportandheagainsaysno.Shedoesnotmakehimfeelwrongbut
acceptshislimitationsatthattime. 20 _ 30
10 .Sheasksforhissupportwithoutbeingdemandingwhenheassumesthescoreissomewhateven. 1 _ 5
11 .Sheasksforsupportwithoutbeingdemandingwhensheisupsetorheknowsshehasbeengiving
more. 10 _ 30
12 .Whenhewithdrawsshedoesn'tmakehimfeelguilty. 10 _ 20
I 3 .Whenhecomesbackfromhiscaveshewelcomeshimanddoesn'tpunishhimorrejecthim. 10 _ 20
I 4. Whenheapologizes for amistakeandshereceivesitwithlovingacceptanceandforgiveness. The
biggerthemistakehemakesthemorepointshegives. 10 _ 50
I 5 .Whenheaskshertodosomethingandshesaysnowithoutgivingalistofreasonswhyshecan'tdoit.