5 .Imissyourlove.Wouldyouscheduleanhourwithmetonightorsometimesoonjustformetoshare
withyouwhat'sgoingoninmylife?
Love,Lesley
P.S.WhatIwouldliketohearfromyouis:
DearLesley,
Thankyouforwritingmeaboutyourfeelings.Iunderstandthatyoumissme.Let'sschedulespecialtime
tonightbetweeneightandnine.
Love,Henry
WHENTOWRITELOVELETTERS.................................................................................................
ThetimetowriteaLoveLetteriswheneveryouareupsetandyouwanttofeelbetter.Herearesome
commonwaysLoveLetterscanbewritten:
1 .LoveLettertoanintimatepartner.
2 .LoveLettertoafriend,child,orfamilymember.
3 .LoveLettertobusinessassociateorclient.Insteadofsaying"Iloveyou"attheendyoumaychooseto
use"Iappreciate"and"Irespect."InmostcasesIdon'trecommendsharingit.
4 .LoveLettertoyourself
5 .LoveLettertoGodorHigherPower.ShareyourupsetfeelingsaboutyourlifewithGodandaskfor
support.
6 .RolereversalLoveLetter.Ifitishardtoforgivesomeone,pretendthatyouarethemforafewminutes
andwriteaLoveLetterfromthemtoyou.Youwillbeamazedathowquicklyyoubecomemoreforgiving.
7 .MonsterLoveLetter.Ifyouarereallyupsetandyourfeelingsaremeanandjudgmental,ventthemina
letter. Thenbum theletter. Donotexpectyourpartnertoreaditunlessyouboth canhandlenegative
feelingsandarewillingtodoso.Inthatcaseevenmonsterletterscanbeveryhelpful.
8 .DisplacementLoveUtter.Whenpresenteventsupsetyouandremindyouofunresolvedfeelingsfrom
childhood,imagineyoucangobackintimeandwritealettertooneofyourparents,sharingyourfeelings
andaskingfortheirsupport.
WHYWENEEDTOWRITELOVELETTERS....................................................................................
Aswehaveexploredthroughoutthisbook,itisvastlyimportantforwomentosharetheirfeelingsandfeel