workonourrelationship.Notonlyisourpartnerfromanotherplanet,butheorsheisalsoahumanwho
makesmistakesandisflawedincertainways.
Frustrationanddisappointmentarise;weedsneedtobeuprootedandplantsneedextrawateringunder
thehotsun.Itisnolongereasytogiveloveandgettheloveweneed.Wediscoverthatwearenotalways
happy,andwedonotalwaysfeelloving.Itisnotourpictureoflove.
Many couples at this point become disillusioned. They do not want to work on a relationship. They
unrealisticallyexpectittobespringallthetime.Theyblametheirpartnersandgiveup.Theydonotrealize
thatloveisnotalwayseasy;sometimesitrequireshardworkunderahotsun.Inthesummerseasonof
love, weneedto nurtureour partner'sneedsaswellas askforandgettheloveweneed. Itdoesn't
happenautomatically.
The Autumn of Love
Asaresultoftendingthegardenduringthesummer,wegettoharvesttheresultsofourhardwork.Fall
hascome. It is agolden time-richand fulfilling. Weexperienceamore maturelovethataccepts and
understandsour partner'simperfections aswellasour own. It is atimeofthanksgiving andsharing.
Havingworkedhardduringsummerwecanrelaxandenjoythelovewehavecreated.
The Winter of Love
Thentheweatherchangesagain,andwintercomes.Duringthecold,barrenmonthsofwinter,allofnature
pullsbackwithinitself.Itisatimeofrest,reflection,andrenewal.Thisisatimeinrelationshipswhenwe
experienceourownunresolvedpainor ourshadow self.Itis whenour lidcomesoffand our painful
feelings emerge. It isa timeof solitary growth when weneed to look more to ourselves than toour
partnersforloveandfulfillment.Itisatimeofhealing.Thisisthetimewhenmenhibernateintheircaves
andwomensinktothebottomoftheirwells.
Afterlovingandhealingourselvesthroughthedark winteroflove,thenspringinevitably returns. Once
againweareblessedwiththefeelingsofhope,love,andanabundanceofpossibilities.Basedontheinner
healing andsoulsearchingofour wintery journey, weare then able to open our hearts andfeel the
springtimeoflove.
SUCCESSFULRELATIONSHIPS.....................................................................................................
Afterstudyingthisguideforimprovingcommunicationandgettingwhatyouwantinyourrelationships,
youarewellpreparedforhavingsuccessfulrelationships.Youhavegoodreasontofeelhopefulforyourself.
Youwillweatherwellthroughtheseasonsoflove.