LasVegas;DavidFarlowin SanDiego;BartandMerrilJacobsinDallas;andOveJohlianssonandEwa
MartenssoninStockholm.
IthankRichardCohenandCindyBlackatBeyondWordsPublishingfortheirlovingandgenuinesupportof
mylastbook,Men,Women,andRelationsbips,whichgavebirthtotheideasinthisbook.
Ithank johnVestmanatTrianonStudiosforhisexpertaudiorecordingsofmywholeseminarandDave
MortonandthestaffofCassetteExpressfortheircontinuedappreciationofthismaterialandtheirquality
service.
Ithank themembersofmymen'sgroupfor sharingtheirstories,andI especiallythankLenneyEiger,
CharlesWood, JacquesEarly, DavidPlacek,and ChrisJohns,whogavemesuch valuablefeedback for
editingthemanuscript.
Ithankmysecretary,Arlana,forefficientlyandresponsiblytakingovertheofficeduringthisproject.
Ithankmylawyer(andadoptedgrandfatherofmychildren),JerryRiefold,foralwaysbeingthere.
IthankCliffordMcGuireforhiscontinuedfriendshipoftwentyyears.Icouldnotaskforabettersounding
boardandfriend.