- Introduction..........................................................................................................................................
- Chapter 1 MenArefromMars,WomenArefromVenus..........................................................................
- REMEMBERINGOURDIFFERENCES................................................................................................
- ANOVERVIEWOFOURDIFFERENCES............................................................................................
- GOODINTENTIONSARENOTENOUGH..........................................................................................
- Chapter 2 Mr.Fix-ItandtheHome-ImprovementCommittee..................................................................
- LIFEONMARS..............................................................................................................................
- LIFEONVENUS.............................................................................................................................
- GIVEUPGIVINGADVICE...............................................................................................................
- LEARNINGTOLISTEN...................................................................................................................
- INDEFENSEOFMR.FIX-ITANDTHEHOME-IMPROVEMENTCOMMITTEE........................................
- WHENAWOMANRESISTSAMAN'SSOLUTIONS............................................................................
- WHENAMANRESISTSTHEHOME-IMPROVEMENTCOMMITTEE......................................................
- Chapter 3 MenGotoTheirCavesandWomenTalk................................................................................
- COPINGWITHSTRESSONMARSANDVENUS................................................................................
- FINDINGRELIEFINTHECAVE.......................................................................................................
- FINDINGRELIEFTHROUGHTALKING.............................................................................................
- HOWTHEMARTIANSANDVENUSIANSFOUNDPEACE....................................................................
- Chapter 4 HowtoMotivatetheOppositeSex.........................................................................................
- WHENAMANLOVESAWOMAN.....................................................................................................
- WHENAWOMANLOVESAMAN.....................................................................................................
- SETTINGANDRESPECTINGLIMITS...............................................................................................
- LEARNINGTORECEIVE.................................................................................................................
- LEARNINGTOGIVE.......................................................................................................................
- Chapter 5 SpeakingDifferentLanguages...............................................................................................
- EXPRESSINGFEELINGSVERSUSEXPRESSINGINFORMATION.........................................................
- WHENVENUSIANSTALK...............................................................................................................
- WHENMARTIANSDON'TTALK......................................................................................................
- WHENMARTIANSDOTALK...........................................................................................................
- WHATTODOWHENHEGOESINTOHISCAVE...............................................................................
- HOWTOCOMMUNICATESUPPORTTOAMARTIAN........................................................................
- MAKINGLITTLECHANGES.............................................................................................................
- HOWTOCOMMUNICATEWITHOUTBLAME....................................................................................
- Chapter 6 MenAreLikeRubberBands..................................................................................................
- WHATEVERYWOMANSHOULDKNOWABOUTMEN.......................................................................
- HOWWOMENMISINTERPRETMEN................................................................................................
- WHENTOTALKWITHAMAN........................................................................................................
- NOWTOGETAMANTOTALK.......................................................................................................
- WHENAMANWON'TTALK............................................................................................................
- WHENAMANDOESN'TPULLAWAY...............................................................................................
- OBSTRUCTINGTHEINTIMACYCYCLE............................................................................................
- HOWAMAN'SPASTMAYAFFECTHISINTIMACYCYCLE.................................................................
- WISEMENANDWOMEN................................................................................................................
- Chapter 7 WomenAreLikeWaves........................................................................................................
- HOWMENREACTTOTHEWAVE...................................................................................................
- RECURRINGCONVERSATIONSANDARGUMENTS...........................................................................
- UNDERSTANDINGNEEDINESS.......................................................................................................
- WHENAWOMANDOESN'TFEELSAFEINHERWELL......................................................................
- WHENSHE'SINTHEWELLANDHE'SINTHECAVE........................................................................
- RESOLVINGCONFLICTSTHROUGHUNDERSTANDING....................................................................
- HOWMONEYCANCREATEPROBLEMS...........................................................................................
- FEELINGSAREIMPORTANT...........................................................................................................
- Chapter 8 DiscoveringOurDifferentEmotionalNeeds............................................................................
- THETWELVEKINDSOFLOVE........................................................................................................
- THEKNIGHTINSHININGARMOR..................................................................................................
- NOWYOUMAYBEUNKNOWINGLYTURNINGOFFYOURPARTNER.................................................
- WHENLOVEFAILS........................................................................................................................
- LEARNINGTOLISTENWITHOUTGETTINGANGRY.......................................................................
- THEARTOFEMPOWERINGAMAN...............................................................................................
- Chapter 9 HowtoAvoidArguments.....................................................................................................
- WHATHAPPENSWHENWEARGUE..............................................................................................
- WHYARGUMENTSHURT.............................................................................................................
- THEFOURSTANCESFORAVOIDINGHURT..................................................................................
- WHYWEARGUE..........................................................................................................................
- THEANATOMYOFANARGUMENT...............................................................................................
- HOWTOEXPRESSYOURDIFFERENCESWITHOUTARGUING........................................................
- GIVINGSUPPORTATDIFFICULTTIMES.......................................................................................
- AVOIDINGARGUMENTSTHROUGHLOVINGCOMMUNICATION.....................................................
- Chapter 10 ScoringPointswiththeOppositeSex.................................................................................
- LITTLETHINGSMAKEABIGDIFFERENCE....................................................................................
- THEMAGICOFDOINGLITTLETHINGS........................................................................................
- REDIRECTINGENERGYANDATTENTION.....................................................................................
- WHENWOMENGIVEPOINTS.......................................................................................................
- HEALINGTHERESENTMENTFLU.................................................................................................
- WHYMENGIVELESS..................................................................................................................
- HOWMENGIVEPOINTS..............................................................................................................
- WHATMAKESMENDEFENSIVE....................................................................................................
- WHENMENGIVEPENALTYPOINTS..............................................................................................
- REMEMBERINGOURDIFFERENCES..............................................................................................
- Chapter 11 HowtoCommunicateDifficultFeelings...............................................................................
- THELOVELETTERTECHNIQUE....................................................................................................
- MAKINGITSAFEFORLOVELETTERS...........................................................................................
- MINILOVELETTERS....................................................................................................................
- WHENTOWRITELOVELETTERS.................................................................................................
- WHYWENEEDTOWRITELOVELETTERS....................................................................................
- TELLINGTHECOMPLETETRUTH.................................................................................................
- HEALINGNEGATIVEFEELINGS....................................................................................................
- SECRETSOFSELF-HELP..............................................................................................................
- Chapter 12 HowtoAskforSupportandGetIt.....................................................................................
- WHYWOMENDON'TASK............................................................................................................
- STEPI:ASKINGCORRECTLYFORWHATYOUAREALREADYGETTING..........................................
- STEP 2 :PRACTICEASKINGFORMORE(EVENWHENYOUKNOWHEMAYSAYNO)........................
- STEP 3 :PRACTICEASSERTIVEASKING........................................................................................
- WHYMENARESOSENSITIVE......................................................................................................
- Chapter 13 KeepingtheMagicofLoveAlive.........................................................................................
- THE 90 / 10 PRINCIPLE.................................................................................................................
- YOUARENEVERUPSETFORTHEREASONYOUTHINK.................................................................
- THEDELAYEDREACTIONRESPONSE...........................................................................................
- WHYHEALTHYPEOPLEMAYNEEDCOUNSELING..........................................................................
- THESEASONSOFLOVE...............................................................................................................
- SUCCESSFULRELATIONSHIPS.....................................................................................................
- Acknowledgement..............................................................................................................................
tina meador
(Tina Meador)
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