That is why repeating “I must stop eating too much... or stop
smoking... or stop lusting” is a self-defeating strategy. It keeps
you focused on what you don’t want. It’s like announcing, “I’m
never going to do what my mom did.” You are setting yourself up
to repeat it.
Most diets don’t work because they keep you thinking about
food all the time, guaranteeing that you’ll be hungry. In the same
way, a speaker who keeps repeating to herself, “Don’t be
nervous!” sets herself up to be nervous! Instead she should focus
on anything except her feelings—on God, on the importance of
her speech, or on the needs of those listening.
Temptation begins by capturing your attention. What gets
your attention arouses your emotions. Then your emotions
activate your behavior, and you act on what you felt. The more
you focus on “I don’t want to do this,” the stronger it draws
you into its web.
Ignoring a temptation is far more effective than fighting it.
Once your mind is on something else, the temptation loses its
power. So when temptation calls you on the phone, don’t argue
with it, just hang up!
Sometimes this means physically leaving a tempting situation.
This is one time it is okay to run away. Get up and turn
off the television set. Walk away from a group that
is gossiping. Leave the theater in the middle of
the movie. To avoid being stung, stay away from
the bees. Do whatever is necessary to turn your
attention to something else.
Spiritually, your mind is your most vulnerable
organ. To reduce temptation, keep your mind
occupied with God’s Word and other good
thoughts. You defeat bad thoughts by thinking of
something better. This is the principle of replacement. You
overcome evil with good.^4 Satan can’t get your attention when
your mind is preoccupied with something else. That’s why the
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