Coaching, Mentoring and Managing: A Coach Guidebook

(Steven Felgate) #1

The Coaching Role: Inspiring and Motivating


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together, learning about each other and how you can rely
on each other.


  1. Clarifying and verifying
    Before any job, just as before every game, you “clarify”
    expectations for your team by reviewing the desired
    outcome, what’s expected, the game plan. This includes
    letting them know how you keep score. Measurements are
    a part of clarification as well as instruments for motivation
    and accomplishment. It’s a form of “no secrets, no
    surprises” style of management. You “verify” the team’s
    understanding by asking each team member to explain his
    special assignment(s) during specific tasks, like game
    situations. Speaking doesn’t guarantee that they get it. Test
    their understanding of what they think are the results and
    restrictions. Clarify the goals and objectives to verify that
    they understand.

  2. Affirming and acknowledging
    You observe the performance of your people. You
    acknowledge team members, giving them special
    reminders, warnings, encouragement and praise. You
    acknowledge the team by your visible, vocal, and tactical
    involvement and support. Credible affirmation relies on
    your knowledge of your people. The question isn’t
    whether or not they want recognition; it’s how they prefer
    to be recognized. Effective coaching underlines every
    excellent behavior and notes each step forward — so that
    it gets repeated. In order to make sure your people listen
    to you and really hear you, affirm them individually.

  3. Motivating and inspiring
    In sports, when a time-out is called just before the tie-
    breaking point is played, the coach reminds team members
    what is at stake ... what rewards await the individuals
    who make the winning team effort. As a manager, you
    challenge team members with the memory of past
    victories, with examples of what they accomplished. You
    enthuse, you excite, you encourage — so they believe they
    can do it. Motivating and inspiring are about them, not
    you. It’s about instilling the confidence and energy that

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