Attract And Seduce

(Elliott) #1

  • I like how well travelled you are...


Think about what that quality means to you, and why you like it.
Here's a simple compliment script you can use to flesh out your
compliments:


"I really enjoy how [trait] you are. It's important to me because
[reason]. Whenever I meet someone who is [trait], it's like a breath of
fresh air. Thanks for being awesome."


In this story traits can be anything from well-traveled, stylish, well-
read, intelligent, quick-witted, badass, it's up to you.


Other Examples:


  • I like how adventurous you are. I try to live my life like a storybook;
    taking risks and exploring the world, and when I meet someone else
    who feels the same it's really exciting for me.

  • I really like your sense of style. To me, fashion is an extension of
    your identity, when you meet someone with a unique style it says a
    lot about that person. It’s almost a sign that the conversation is going
    to be just as interesting. So far, it seems to be true.


Compliment more than once.

Don't just give one compliment. In fact, once you know that she is
attracted and interested in you, sprinkle a few compliments into the
conversation. Just remember not to give them all at once.


When I coach Stylelife bootcamps, I always suggest telling a woman
three non-physical things you like about her.
Why non-physical?
Because you are still strangers, and physical compliments often
come off as sexual. In addition, pointing out physical features to her will

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