Why? What is the difference between the two meetings? And is there
an effective and proven way to set up a date with a woman that she is
looking forward to and would never flake on?
When I started to learn about attraction and seduction, I was curious
and determined to find a method that works. So, I searched high and low
for strategies for closing meetings, getting phone numbers and setting up
dates. I must have tried a dozen or so, with varying amounts of success.
The answer finally came when I moved out to Los Angeles. I was
living with Neil Strauss for a few months, and while I was there he
taught me a technique called, "Seeding a Date." No joke – seeding was
the answer to how to set up a date. I've been using it (and teaching it)
ever since.
Seeding is all about "planting a seed" in a person’s mind about a cool
event that is happening, venue to check out, a new restaurant, a new band
or a concert. The key is to bring it up in the conversation without inviting
her – at least initially. It's really a simple change up in the pattern of how
we normally try to set up meetings and dates that makes all the
difference.
Now, before I get into the meat of it, I want to explain something:
I'm going to teach you the proper way to seed a date, but it's going to
take some time to work all the kinks out of your ability to perform this
technique. However, if you can just remember this one lesson you're
pretty much doing it right.
There is one big mistake that most men make. The result is that she
either won't give out her number, or if she volunteers her digits she won’t
answer the phone or she won’t show up to the date.
The Solution: Set up the date and then get the number. Don't try
and get her phone number and then set up the date, like every other guy.