Here's an example:"This Thursday, I'm headed to this great bar with a few friends,
thought you might enjoy the venue. Let me know if you're interested, and
I'll send you the details."
Some more ideas about places to invite them:- Find a place they'll truly enjoy or find interesting.
- Find a place that you'll be comfortable enough to carry on a good
conversation. - Try to find a place that's outside the ordinary, a place they haven't
been before.
Now, what happens if you seeded a date and they flake?Well you have to remember, people have lives, and no matter how
good you get at the art of attraction and seduction, you never know what
can happen in another person's life.
Okay, so let's say you set up a date, and over the week she sends you
a bunch of texts. How do you respond?
First, it depends on what she says, but your goal is to build a
connection in person, which means as little texting as possible.
If it's a flirty text, or someone recalling the events of the night you
met her, I suggest a very short response. Acknowledge them, but don't
have a conversation. Save it for the date.
If it's a no-nonsense text – meaning she’s contacting you about
logistics, work, or something important – reply by text or call her to
discuss it.