As you get more practice and your awareness grows you’ll start to
see that the indicators have their own weight; sometimes you really only
need one and sometimes you need quite a few. But for now, always look
for three.
The #2 rule: Don’t make indicators up; look for legitimate ones and
be confident that they have meaning. For example: “I think she looked at
me from across the room,” is not a legit indicator, but if she beckoned
you with her eyes and you’re sure of it, that would count. If you only
think she did, then don’t count it.
I’ve laid out a few signs to look for that can indicate that a woman is
interested in you. Remember, most of the time just one of these doesn’t
mean she’s attracted to you – so look for a combination of the following:
She is hanging out with you
If you went on a date with you, it’s an indicator of interest. I’m not
saying she’s going to sleep with you, but be confident that if she’s on a
date with you, that was her choice. She could have said, "No," or flaked,
but she didn’t. Well done!
She is touching you
This can be confusing for many guys, as it was for me in my
previous story. Some girls touch because they’re kinesthetic people and
some touch when they’re attracted. Just think of it this way, if she
continues to increase the amount of touching she does since she first
became comfortable around you, then it’s very likely an indicator of
interest.
She compliments you
Compliments come in many forms. They’re all indicators of interest.
Don’t tease them about the compliment and don’t self-deprecate. Take
the compliment graciously. A simple, "Thanks, I really appreciate that,"