The Bottom Line on Texting
Sending text messages can be fun and flirty. But don't put too
much into it. There is nothing you're going to tap out on your iPhone that
is going to make her fall in love with you. When you put too much
pressure on a text message, that's when it gets frustrating. Instead, just
have fun.
Rules for Texting for Maximum SuccessRule 1: Do Not Text to Avoid a Phone Conversation
Texting isn't meant to be used as a tool to avoid phone conversations.
Speaking to a woman on the phone has more seduction potential than a
text message (just like seeing her in person has more seduction potential
than a phone call).
If you recently opened, attracted and seeded a date with a woman,
your next goal is to meet up with her. The chances of setting this up with
her via text message are slimmer than via phone conversation and setting
it up over the phone are slimmer than seeding a date when you initially
met. Bottom line: Practice seeding!
Rule 2: Bring Value When Texting
Just like you should bring value for your wingman, you should apply
the same philosophy to your text message game. Low-value or no-value
texts are attempts to leech value from the woman, such as: "What’s up?"
or "What are you doing tonight?" or "When can I see you again?" These
types of texts will get you nowhere because they make you seem needy,
invoke no positive emotion in the woman and display nothing high-value
about you.
When I text a woman in the early stages of seduction, it’s either to
send logistical information about a date or to solve a problem. For
instance, if we had a conversation about a book and at the time I couldn’t