Stringer: I would recommend that they start by reading something
that either Byron or the other Stylelife coaches have written. I would
recommend getting on the Stylelife Academy and checking out the
forums, to learn from that. I also would recommend that people take the
Ultimate Training Program in order to get a really strong foundation.
They’ll get the introduction from Neil Strauss, because Neil's the guy
who wrote The Game. A lot of people know that. If you don't know that
then I would say start there; read The Game. Most people know that
now, so I would say go ahead. If you haven't read The Game, read it.
Secondly, take the Ultimate Training Program, where you're going to get
all sorts of great advice from the Stylelife Coaches and Neil Strauss.
Stylelife: Great. For the last question, I want to know if you can
share a story with us, about a time you used these techniques and you
saw something actually shift from your usage of one of these techniques,
like a tale from the field.
Stringer: Sure. Gosh. Let me nail them down, my friend. Let me
tell you the story about how I met my current girlfriend. There was a
moment when I first met her, when I realized that the man that I was
before had no chance at all at attracting her, because she was full of shit
tests. She was very flirty when I met her. Which to me before, I would
have misinterpreted her flirting as being offended, not interested in me.
She was just giving me a hard time, like girls will do when they're
flirting.
Stylelife, in general, equipped me with the idea that I could just
walk by, I could banter back and forth, and reply with interesting
comments maybe about something that I was wearing. For instance,
when I first met my girlfriend, she commented that the lion lapel on my
jacket was interesting, and said that it reminded her of the Wizard of Oz.
Some guys might be offended by that or might react negatively to that
comment, but it actually lead right into an identity story for me that was