When I started learning this, I didn't own a car, I didn't have a job,
and I had no social circle or network to speak of. It's all about following
the system – a tested, proven, and simple system. It's all about learning
what to do, and – more importantly – when to do it. The best part about
this whole system is: once you begin to see results, it gets easier and
easier.
The third mistake is "The Self-Defeater". You have to get out of your
own way. If you don't, you'll be stuck where you are forever. You have
to push yourself. Find motivation to move forward, take risks, and make
changes. Self-sabotaging behaviors are commonplace and disastrous.
Your mind wants you to follow the path of least resistance, because
it takes a lot of energy to do something new, and your mind wants to use
as little energy as possible. Self-motivated people are capable of making
it over that mental hump. They've trained themselves to do it.
Here's a technique to prevent you from becoming The Self-Defeater.
Every time you tell yourself, "I don't feel like trying this," get a piece of
paper and write down the reasons why. Then write a list of the things that
won't change if you don't try. Finally, write down a day and time you're
going to give whatever you're going to try a shot. Set an alarm on your
phone for that day. When the alarm goes off, go try out the techniques
we teach you here.
If you can just avoid these three pitfalls, you're going to do great!
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