Attract And Seduce

When you’re in conversation, your goal is to build social value.
Social value is relative, and is based on how interesting you are to the
person or people you’re talking to. What we’re going to work on in this
step is how you convey high social value in an authentic way. The goal is
to make yourself interesting to the specific group of people you are
speaking with. Here’s the goal for the Attract section:

 Learn to use your knowledge and showcase-able skills to build value.
 Learn to tell stories that focus on preferences and experiences to
convey your identity.
 Learn how to use active disinterest to create emotional spikes in your
seductions.

There are many ways to be interesting and authentic. Just about
anything you do or say can be a tool for building value; it’s all about
understanding how value is built and conveyed.

This is really the meat of the system: building social value. This is
one of the sections you’re going to spend the most time refining. There
are quite a few pieces to it, but once you’ve practiced it, your social life
will shoot into the stratosphere. Once you learn how to build value,
you’ll get more dates, have more sex, meet who you want, and more.

Step #3: Connect

To romantically connect with a woman, you must tell her that you’re
interested. At its core, this chapter is about timing. In attraction and
seduction there is a specific time when you must tell her that you are
interested. Most guys have terrible timing, and little understanding of
how to compliment someone effectively. In this chapter you’ll learn:

 How to give a great compliment.
 How to get the most impact out of a compliment.
 The timing for a seductive compliment.