You’re Not Going Out Enough: Guess what, guys? Going out once
a month isn’t going to cut it. Sure, you’ve got a life to lead. But try
and head out at least a couple of times a week and practice what
you’re learning. I’d argue that having more than a week between the
last approach of one night and the first of the next is going to be a
huge setback in terms of your comfort level.
You Make Excuses to Not Approach: There’s always going to be a
reason to not approach. However, the more you do it, the better
you’re going to get at it. Any time you hear that little voice inside
your head telling you why you shouldn’t approach, tell it to shut up
and approach immediately.
Having approach anxiety isn't the difference between a regular man
and a confident man. The real difference is that confident men
experience this anxiety and push past it.
Here is a thought experiment: Would this fear still exist if you were
100% sure when you approached that the woman would be friendly,
want to talk to you, or even be interested in you? In other words, if there
were no risk, you'd approach her, wouldn't you?
Ask yourself: What's the lasting result of being rejected or
embarrassed?
Mostly, just a bad memory; a reminder that you need more practice.The biggest mistake is being 'too shy to try'. As Wayne Greztky said,"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."Your potential gain is significant! The best case is she likes you, you
get her number and you go on a date. No matter what, you learn
something from talking to her. You apply that knowledge next time. You